Weddings

Ok, so I finally told my extended family today that I am engaged...It's hard to say whether they already knew or n0t. Knowing my Grandmother they knew and put on a moderately decent show...All of them exclaiming that they were so excited for me and they didn't even know I was dating anyone, and somehow all asking just the right questions so that they could all come to the conclusion that it had to be Alan...some guessing by name, some just hinting that it was an old friend of mine...very funny to look back on...I'm pretty sure they already knew....but that's Grandma, I knew once I activated the grapevine all of my thunder would be gone... Ah well, no biggie, they put on the show well. They all know how to do that.

On another note, I'm already hitting snags in the planning process....yes, I'm just starting, and lo and behold, the date that we have chosen will not work because the place that we have chosen is pretty much booked. I know this seems like a minor detail, but I AM getting married there. Everyone kept on pressuring me for a date over and over and over, and honestly, I find it ironic and funny that when I finally set out to do it that it all got gummed up. Alan, no comments from you if you don't want me pissy. Anyway, as they always say, things never go as smoothly as you want them to. The week before will work, but I do have to talk to Alan, who is of course super busy tonight so I won't be talking to him...*sigh* ok, enough wedding talk, I'm starting to get all depressed about it. Bleah....at least it's still early in the game, if things don't work out for other people, I'll just have to make sure that it works out for me, and Alan of course, and screw the rest of them....:-P Rant over.